I have lost total interest in having a relationship..for some reason I used to enjoy dating, and being in a relationship..and most of the people that I see that are in relationship aren't that good..and I have also noticed some of the girls who want to be in a relationship, have reasons to be in it, some are pressured to get married, some are looking for financial reasons, some are just lonely..Heck, I’m probably losing interest in someone right now, completely unbeknownst to myself but setting the mind of the poor lass on fire, and not necessarily in a good way.One saving grace is that most people, male or female, usually aren’t doing this stuff deliberately.There he was, showing up outside your castle window every day in his mostly shiny but frankly also a little rusty armor, strumming his lute and warbling his troubadour songs. Now, I don’t know exactly what was going on in your particular situation, Sheila, since I wasn’t there.
If you have a slight feeling of dread before meeting up with your significant other, that does not bode well for you two.Also, if you feel exhausted or just mentally drained after a day spent together, it’s time to move on.Spending casual time together should not feel like an obligation. In fact, use this eureka moment to propel you forward. Bring down the personal guards you've held against yourself and your own intuition.