Dating people doesn't necessarily mean you have to have sex with them, it just means you are going out with them, spending time with them, hanging out with them and getting to know them.
Unfortunately, the good stuff is hidden within a lot of bad advice that would confuse beginners. And these are often underestimated in dating advice, especially where it concerns relationship skills advice. In Dating to Relating the author begins by discussing the weaknesses of other dating authors' products, and telling you why his is better.Scattered throughout the book are some useful concepts that I really appreciated - examples are "negative sex talk" and "creating future". He tells you that 'women are different' and that all the other dating gurus' methods and systems don't take this into account. Vin Di Carlo has a product that also takes different women personalities into account named Pandora's Box.They've made it into my personal stash of useful ways of thinking about dating and relationships - that's pretty hard to do these days. "Dating to Relating's system" focuses nearly completely on different approaches for women with different personalities.I will not be renewing my membership because the second person I met up with through BM has proved to be my perfect match. Thank you for working way above the level of my expectations!I was lured in by the cracking profile of someone who has subsequently remarketed himself to me as a mediocre dullard. I didn't need it, however, as I had already received a Valentine from the wonderful man whom I met through Blues Match and with whom I am still head over heels in love.