I’m tired of seeing generic first date tips such as “be positive, be yourself, and be nice to the wait staff.” The advice may be correct but we’ve heard it a thousand times. This is the 20th one I’ve read online this week.” I’m right there with you.And that alone doesn’t always ensure successful romantic connections. So let’s talk about some actually useful tips for a first date. As you get physically closer to someone, it feels more and more intimate for the both of you.
Some guys kiss on the first date because they “feel a vibe.” Men can immediately tell if they're attracted to a woman and with loads more testosterone than women, guys are often ready and “in the mood.” Women, on the other hand, take more time to establish their attraction to a man. So it can take time and a patient consistent approach before she is hot for you too.First dates are super awesome, but admit it: They can also be super stressful!From what to wear to what to say to whether or not he’s going to kiss you goodnight, it’s so easy to become a bucket full of nerves before a first date.Whenever you’re sitting together (on a bench, on the ground, in a cab) position yourself so that your bodies are touching or nearly touching. Ask deeper questions that help you screen for the qualities you desire in a woman.The same goes for when you’re walking or standing in line: your arms and shoulders should graze one another. Then share a relevant opinion, story, or joke when it feels natural.