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One of the greatest predictors of life satisfaction is a deep relationship with one other person. There are significant social supports for marriage as well as financial benefits that come with marriage. It is fairly common among young military couples that they think they will not deploy very much or very often.
Factors to be considered include whether the conduct has compromised the chain of command, resulted in the appearance of partiality, or otherwise undermined good order, discipline, authority, or morale.
The acts and circumstances must be such as to lead a reasonable person experienced in the problems of military leadership to conclude that the good order and discipline of the armed forces has been prejudiced by their tendency to compromise the respect of enlisted persons for the professionalism, integrity, and obligations of an officer. Regulations, directives, and orders may also govern conduct between officer and enlisted personnel on both a service-wide and a local basis.
Relationships between enlisted persons of different ranks, or between officers of different ranks may be similarly covered.
Violations of such regulations, directives, or orders may be punishable under Article 92.