Trying to date immediately after a relationship ends is ill-advised.
While it may be what we are instinctively inclined to do, dating before you are emotionally ready is a recipe for disaster. You're likely to feel awkward, unhappy, anxious and numb — and who wants to date that person?
She will do the best job at covering up any signs of her scars and try as hard as you may, getting under her skin, getting to know what's inside the scars, could take a lifetime, if not more. She just wants to know that you aren't just another hoax. You need to be the reason why she wants to hope again.
While I don’t have the answers for you, and I probably never will, I can tell you that someone out there is waiting to love you with all her heart.
I’m just going to go ahead and call out all you men out there.
Yes, even you there, stud muffin, with your sweat-drenched, muscle-pumping, 5 o’clock shadow self.
Since it's basically a lose-lose situation for us, just ask us what's going on if our behavior confuses you.
Treat her like a fully formed human being and you'll be a-OK!